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Meet the Team

“When our wounds cease to be a source of shame, and become a source of healing, we have become wounded healers.”

– Henri Nouwen

Meet Tim Spalla

MA, LPCC
Co-Founder, Executive Director
US Army Veteran

Degrees:
MA, Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Regis University

PhD (in progress), Clinical Psychology, University of Denver

Bio:
Tim earned his Bachelor of Arts degree in history in 2004 from the University of Northern Iowa. After graduating, Tim joined his brothers and volunteered for the US Military where he served as an Army Ranger and completed multiple combat deployments to Iraq. In 2009, he was selected to serve in a coveted position within U.S. Special Operations Command (USSOCOM) where he would go on to spend several years supporting counter-terrorism missions throughout Europe, East Africa, and the Middle East. In 2015, Tim left defense but stayed in Africa to form his own company of former U.S. military veterans partnering with African governments and conservation non-profits to combat poaching and illegal wildlife trafficking. In 2018, Tim partnered with the National Geographic Society to help them identify and expose entities involved in all levels of wildlife crime throughout the continent and internationally.

Although Tim couldn’t articulate it at the time, the decision he had made to continue working in the Middle East and Africa after leaving active duty quickly became a way for him to avoid the spiraling mental health crisis he was facing. For years, Tim had lived in fear of both the stigma, and the judgment from healthcare providers and therapists who would look aghast as he shared details of his experiences working in Iraq and Africa. In 2019, Tim’s professional and personal life collapsed under the weight of his mental health challenges, and in this collapse, it became clear that he needed to focus on healing himself and his young family. A breakthrough occurred when Tim discovered plant medicines and mindfulness. For the first time in his life, Tim began to feel a sense of wholeness and clarity of purpose. It was through this journey of suffering, healing, and growth that the Wounded Healer Project was born.

As a combat veteran, Tim experienced and witnessed immense pain, suffering and the sense of isolation that can emerge from unresolved trauma. He’s witnessed this same level of pain manifest in the war-torn communities where he has lived and worked the past two decades. From al Qaeda in Iraq to frontline wildlife rangers in Africa and most recently, the men and women within the Colorado Department of Corrections where he served a mental health counselor – Tim knows trauma is global. Now he is committing the rest of his life to helping others embrace the pain and suffering of their deepest wounds, so that they may ultimately arrive at a place of healing and peace – something he believes everyone deserves regardless of where their life’s path has taken them.

Meet Tegan Rowley

MA, LPC
Co-Founder, Clinical Director
USAF Veteran

Degrees:
MA, Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Regis University

Bio:
Tegan served on active duty in the USAF from 2012-2015. Overcoming many challenges just to be able to enlist, she was ready to put her life on the line for the protection of others. However, very early on in her time in service, she suffered a career-ending back injury which eventually led to a medical separation from the military. Frequent harassment from an unsupportive chain of command, the ability to deploy being permanently revoked, and the loss of some physical functioning due to her injury led to a deep depression, a sense of hopelessness, and suicidal ideation at times. She often questioned if she was even worthy of being called a “veteran” at all.

After meeting other service members in a pain management program a year after her initial injury, Tegan saw that she was not alone after all and that others were struggling just the same as she was. This was the beginning of Tegan discovering her true life’s purpose: to advocate for and help veterans heal.

As she has taken the path on her own healing journey, Tegan has pursued higher education in mental health counseling, advocated for and created Female Veteran and LGBTQIA+ Veteran therapy groups in Colorado Springs, explored alternative healing modalities, and specialized therapeutically in trauma work. Over time, Tegan’s passion to advocate for veterans has remained at the core, but has expanded and evolved into what she and Tim have built into The Wounded Healer Project.

Meet Tegan Rowley

Co-Founder, Clinical Director & USAF Veteran, MA, LPCC

Degrees:
MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Regis University

Bio:
Tegan served on active duty in the USAF from 2012-2015. Overcoming many challenges just to be able to enlist, she was ready to put her life on the line for the protection of others. However, very early on in her time in service, she suffered a career-ending back injury which eventually led to a medical separation from the military. Frequent harassment from an unsupportive chain of command, the ability to deploy being permanently revoked, and the loss of some physical functioning due to her injury led to a deep depression, a sense of hopelessness, and suicidal ideation at times. She often questioned if she was even worthy of being called a “veteran” at all.

After meeting other service members in a pain management program a year after her initial injury, Tegan saw that she was not alone after all and that others were struggling just the same as she was. This was the beginning of Tegan discovering her true life’s purpose: to advocate for and help veterans heal.

As she has taken the path on her own healing journey, Tegan has pursued higher education in mental health counseling, advocated for and created Female Veteran and LGBTQIA+ Veteran therapy groups in Colorado Springs, explored alternative healing modalities, and specialized therapeutically in trauma work. Over time, Tegan’s passion to advocate for veterans has remained at the core, but has expanded and evolved into what she and Tim have built into The Wounded Healer Project.

Our Master’s Level Clinical Interns

Our Master’s Level Clinical Interns are current student veterans pursuing their Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. Every intern is in the clinical phase of their program completing their practicum and/or internship requirements to graduate. Every intern is overseen by a fully licensed clinical supervisor and receives continual training and consultation over their client work.

The Wounded Healer Project Ailbe Astor US Marine Veteran and Master’s Level Clinical Interns

Ailbe Astor

US Marine Corps Veteran
Adams State University
Clinical Mental Health Counseling
  • Ailbe Astor is a dedicated advocate for veterans, shaped by his service in the U.S. Marine Corps as an aircrew member on the CH-46E helicopter. 

    His experience as aircrew included service in the Persian Gulf during the Southwest Asia Ceasefire Campaign, navigating an intense in-air incident that ended in an emergency landing,  and enduring the loss of a full crew that included a close friend. 

    Upon leaving active duty, he immediately struggled with sleep disturbances, nightmares, anger, and substance use, which led to work and legal issues. 

    His first job after his military service was assisting veterans with registration and VA education benefits at a local community college. While these interactions provided him with a focus outside his own struggles, they also reinforced his avoidance of confronting past events.

     Since 1998, Ailbe has devoted his career to serving veterans through roles in higher education, including administration of VA education benefits, mentorship programs, academic advising, and admissions. 

    He extended his dedication to veterans by working with a service dog organization, using his well developed interpersonal and interviewing skills to assist veteran clients in finding the best service dogs to meet their specific needs.

    These diverse experiences, coupled with his deep understanding of military life and its challenges, have affirmed Ailbe’s passion for supporting veterans. After years of serving large numbers of veterans, he chose to focus on one-on-one interactions and small group settings, providing personalized support and ensuring lasting impact for those who have served.

Jonathan Hernandez

US Army Veteran
University of Denver
Clinical Mental Health Counseling
  • Bio coming soon!

Our Master’s Level
Pre-Clinical Interns

Our Master’s Level Pre-Clinical Interns are current student veterans pursuing their Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling who are not yet in the clinical phase of their graduate program. These interns have been accepted to begin their clinicals with Wounded Healer Project in a future semester and do not see clients until they complete all of their university’s requirements to proceed.

Joe Layman

US Army Veteran // Accepting Clients August 2025
  • My name is Joseph Layman, and I have lived in Colorado for nearly 10 years. Primarily, I was raised in the South, until my mother died.  I was then shipped off to NY to live with my aunt and her family.  For over two years, I attended a Baptist Church.  While I loved learning about Jesus, I began to have a strong distaste for my Pastor.  Everyone was going to hell if you didn’t believe like him.  I remember giving a nun a Bible tract and telling her to repent for being a Catholic; I was 12.  I attended a Catholic high school and learned that Catholics weren’t so bad after all.  While I was serving in Iraq (2003-2004), no matter how bad it got, reciting the Hail Mary Prayer gave me peace.  I converted to Catholicism on Easter Sunday (2008).

    I am a retired Soldier and Deputy Sheriff.  I served 26 years in the Army, and I was in law enforcement for over 15 years, serving the City of Atlanta for 10 years and Douglas County (CO) for over seven years.  In 2023, I was medically retired from the Army, years of abuse on my body resulted in me riding off into the sunset.  I served in Iraq from (2003-2004), and again in (2009-2010), Djibouti and Somalia (2018-2019), and finally Germany from (2019-2020). I also have several stateside active-duty missions. Upon retiring from the Army, I went back to the Sheriff’s Office, but unfortunately I could not pass the physical.  I was allowed to retire from the Sheriff’s Office.

    Leaving the military was not easy, initially I wanted to be a nurse, but the VA (Vocational Rehab) would not pay for the program because of my laundry list of injuries.  I am a firm believer that God whispers in my ear with a hammer.  I have over five years of sobriety, so I called my sponsor.  His advice help others with that struggle with their sobriety.  The VA approved of my program and here I am.

    I have been happily married for over 10 years, we have two kids who are in college, and we have four dogs. I loved hiking, biking, and going to the gym.

Brian Miller

US Army Veteran // Accepting Clients August 2025
  • Brian Miller is a graduate student at Colorado Christian University pursuing a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. As a combat veteran, Brian served in the US Army Infantry from 2006-2010, deploying to Sadr City, Iraq, in 2008-2009. His personal experience navigating the challenges of military service, coupled with 14 years of service as a full-time firefighter/paramedic, provides him with a unique understanding of the pressures and experiences faced by veterans and first responders. Brian is passionate about mental health and dedicated to helping others heal from trauma. He is committed to providing compassionate and effective care tailored to the specific needs of those who have served.

Meghan Sevcik

US Army Veteran // Accepting Limited Clients August 2025
  • Bio coming soon!

Our Staff

Kelsey Rowley

Veteran Spouse // Executive Assistant
  • Coming Soon

Board of Directors

Now Accepting Applications! Send a resume and cover letter to Kelsey Rowley, Executive Assistant, at [email protected]

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Why “The Wounded Healer Project”?

The concept of “wounded healer” was coined by Swiss psychologist, Carl Jung, which describes how a healer is most effective after having been healed themself. Being wounded does not prevent someone from being able to work with those in need of healing; On the contrary, the wounded healer is a companion and an equal – someone who can humbly meet another in their suffering without a sense of superiority. We believe the healer is not someone who heals you, but rather someone who helps you find the key to healing that allows you to heal yourself. 

Our Mission

01

Prevent veteran suicide by going back to our military communities to find and help our brothers and sisters who are isolated and suffering

02

Empower veteran mental health providers and encourage transitioning service members to consider a career in mental health

03

Serve marginalized veterans who may be overlooked due to addiction, poverty, incarceration, homelessness, unemployment, terminal illness or other challenges.

The Labyrinth

Our logo is a labyrinth, which is a symbol of the meandering, but purposeful journey of healing. It is a symbol of our journey inwards to heal ourselves and back out again into the world to share our experiences and help heal the world. Our motto, “Going back to get the others,” is representative of our own journey inwards to heal ourselves and then going back to our military communities to find and help our fellow veterans heal.

Our Values

Humility

We are not superior to those we help. We will meet those who are suffering as an equal who is ready to support.

Service

We vow to share what we have experienced in healing by being willing to go wherever we are called to help others heal themselves.

Healing

Healing is the transcendence of suffering. We believe all people are capable of this and deserve to experience the emotional freedom it brings.

Awards & Recognitions

AUG 2024  University of Denver Graduate School of Professional Psychology (GSPP) Dean’s Scholarship: Tim Spalla

AUG 2023 The Father Ignacio Martín-Baró Award for Excellence in Counseling: Tim Spalla

JUN 2022 Tillman scholar: Tim Spalla

OCT 2022 FOX 31 Denver, Serving Those Who Serve, Hero of the Month: Tegan Rowley

DEC 2021 F. Leonard Pomponio and Elizabeth M. Adams Outstanding Graduate Award: Tegan Rowley

Publications

The Most Dangerous Place for a Veteran; Fighting a New Battle: Don’t Let Isolation Be the Threat You Didn’t See Coming : Tegan Rowley, Veterans Life Magazine, February/March 2025 Issue

Breaking the Cycle: How the Wounded Healer Project Supports Veterans in the Legal System Veterans Life Magazine, September/October 2024 Issue

Healing the Hidden Wounds: Veteran Moral Injury, Addiction, and the Promise of Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy Denver University COST Program Lunch and Learn Event with Tim Spalla

Tim Spalla – Opportunities for Counselors to Support Military-Connected Populations – National Board of Certified Counselors Newsletter. May 2024

Tim Spalla – Man of Action Pete A Turner & the Break It Down Show Podcast. October 2023

Tim Spalla – Veteran Mental Health: PTSD, Moral Injury and Culturally Competent Care Pat Tillman Foundation Huddle 226. May 2023

Tim Spalla, Army Ranger Veteran and The Wounded Healer A More Elite Podcast. September 2022

Regis alumnus wins Tillman scholarship. Regis Life. July, 2022

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